Wash day used to feel like a deadline. Something I rushed through, arms tired, scalp irritated, patience thin. That Saturday, I decided to do it differently. Not faster. Not perfect. Just slower.
I started by sectioning my hair carefully, fingers separating curls instead of fighting them. Acceptance came first. My hair was dry because the weather had changed. It was tangled because I had been tired. Neither of those things meant I had failed. They meant my body and my routine needed adjustment.